Sunday instead of Saturday please....
One of the most meaningful pieces of advice I have received from someone is to "date someone who is interested in you". And that does not necessarily mean someone who thinks you are cute or funny. It means someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. Someone who wants to read every word you write. Who wants to hear your favourite songs and why those are your favourite. Someone who wants to find every scar upon you body and learn where each one came from. Someone who wants to know which quotes or songs resonate deep inside your bones and will genuinely listen anytime you just need to vent. Someone who can get you to laugh when you need it the most.
There is a difference between attraction and interest; one I have sadly learnt the hard way. Just because someone desires you, does not mean they value you. Finding someone who wants to learn every aspect of who you are as a person and stick it out through the tough times, who wants to stand in the sun with you is a difficult task in life. And I guess before you meet the one who makes the tough day in the end worth it all, you have to kiss the odd frog or two to get to the prince. I'm just afraid and I think everyone is. I'm afraid of getting hurt; of putting in too much effort coming across as 'clingy' and not getting the same effort in return. I'm afraid of getting hurt, and getting my hopes up because of empty promises. But with love you just have to risk it, take that leap of faith and hope the prince is ready to catch you as you fall for him.
I hope in life I can be someone's Sunday morning instead of their Saturday night as cheesy as that may sound. You meet many different people and their intentions may not be the same as your own. Often it is a hard lesson to learn that some people are not meant to stay in your life and it is just in the process of growing as a person. The right people will make an effort to remain in your life no matter how difficult it may seem sometimes; often times I know I can come across as someone who is cold and distant, but that is only because I feel the need to do that in order to protect myself from getting hurt. And for someone who may seem like that, in reality I think about love and all those cheesy moments alongside love a lot. I want someone who is attracted to me not in a physical aspect (though that is a nice bonus i guess lol) but because of the details that make me who I am am. I fall in love with someone who can make me laugh and forget about my problems, become my sort of paradise, a haven of some sort. I fall for the way a certain someone laughs, smiles or even talks to another person. I want someone who in this temporary world will be my permanent forever. One day, soon enough, I hope.
~Positive Mind~Positive Vibes~Positive Life~
There is a difference between attraction and interest; one I have sadly learnt the hard way. Just because someone desires you, does not mean they value you. Finding someone who wants to learn every aspect of who you are as a person and stick it out through the tough times, who wants to stand in the sun with you is a difficult task in life. And I guess before you meet the one who makes the tough day in the end worth it all, you have to kiss the odd frog or two to get to the prince. I'm just afraid and I think everyone is. I'm afraid of getting hurt; of putting in too much effort coming across as 'clingy' and not getting the same effort in return. I'm afraid of getting hurt, and getting my hopes up because of empty promises. But with love you just have to risk it, take that leap of faith and hope the prince is ready to catch you as you fall for him.
I hope in life I can be someone's Sunday morning instead of their Saturday night as cheesy as that may sound. You meet many different people and their intentions may not be the same as your own. Often it is a hard lesson to learn that some people are not meant to stay in your life and it is just in the process of growing as a person. The right people will make an effort to remain in your life no matter how difficult it may seem sometimes; often times I know I can come across as someone who is cold and distant, but that is only because I feel the need to do that in order to protect myself from getting hurt. And for someone who may seem like that, in reality I think about love and all those cheesy moments alongside love a lot. I want someone who is attracted to me not in a physical aspect (though that is a nice bonus i guess lol) but because of the details that make me who I am am. I fall in love with someone who can make me laugh and forget about my problems, become my sort of paradise, a haven of some sort. I fall for the way a certain someone laughs, smiles or even talks to another person. I want someone who in this temporary world will be my permanent forever. One day, soon enough, I hope.
~Positive Mind~Positive Vibes~Positive Life~
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