THE POSITIVITY MINDSET

Just a sort of reflection/note to future self that I just had to write out to make it more official. It has been a whirlwind of activity for the past couple months, equally good and bad moments have happened, and with among those moments I have grown and learned somethings. And with that, this post manifested. Word of advice I have learned over the past month or so: Everyone is temporary, no matter who they are and what they tell you. Don't rely on on anyone but  yourself  to get you through what you have to get through in order to succeed.  Second word of advice: "Faking it till you make it" is not always the way it works. Sometimes you have to cry yourself to sleep every night for two weeks, and isolate yourself from everyone in order to properly heal. The hard way might take a little longer to cross the finish line with, but the good thing is that when you do heal, you will know yourself, what you want and what you like about yourself a lot better that if you did ...

I feel like these days, relationships come and go. No one thinks about the future, cause it's so far away. But if you can't see yourself curled up in bed, every Sunday morning with her for the rest of your life, let her go. If you aren't excited to take her to places she hasn't been before just to see the look on her face, let her go. If you don't surprise her even though she hates it, let her go. If you can picture yourself in a place you love, and not wish she was there with you, let her go. Let her go so someone can love her more, Let her go because she deserves to be loved. Let her go before you break her. Let her go before she gives up on the idea of love.